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In this episode of The A to Z English Podcast, Jack uploads an interview he did with Nisha from the You Tube channel Talk with Nisha.
Transcript:
00:00:01
Jack
Welcome to the A-Z English podcast, where Jack and Social take you on a journey from learning the basics to mastering the nuances of the English language. Our podcast is designed for non-native speakers who are looking to improve their English skills in a fun and interactive way. Each episode covers a wide range of topics.
00:00:23
Jack
From grammar and vocabulary to slang and culture to help you navigate the English speaking world with ease.
00:00:30
Jack
I’m glad that you reached out so quickly to have me back on your channel. Thank you so much. I appreciate it.
00:00:37
Nisha
Thank you so much. Yeah. OK, great. How is going your channel, your podcast channel and your YouTube channel? It’s great.
00:00:49
Jack
Our our YouTube channel, English Word master, we just released a common European framework of reference test. Do you do you know CEF?
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Jack
The A1A2B1B2. So we just released a a test on there which is popular. So if any listeners out there want to you know test their ability like to see what level you are you can go to English word master and.
00:01:17
Nisha
If anybody want to talk the English level, OK so.
00:01:23
Jack
Yeah, I think it’s it’s quite useful. It’s.
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Jack
Just it’s on YouTube, but you can.
00:01:26
Jack
You can give yourself a score. You can check your own answers.
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Jack
And you can.
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Jack
See like what your you know approximately what your level is. If your A1A2B1B2 it’s kind of a nice nice tool and the podcast is going really well.
00:01:44
Jack
They’re just. I released one new episode every.
00:01:46
Jack
OK. And so?
00:01:48
Nisha
Right.
00:01:49
Jack
Yeah, we’ve had really, really fun conversations with some of our students. And then also with my Co host. So sometimes I record with my students. Sometimes I record episodes with my co-host. So yeah, there’s kind of mixed mix there.
00:02:07
Nisha
And how is your experience with the having conversation with the Indian guys actually on YouTube channel? You’re a YouTube channel?
00:02:15
Jack
Yes, I talked to, I talked to someone named changing and I talked to another person. I I can’t. His name escapes me at the moment.
00:02:26
Jack
If you uh.
00:02:28
Jack
I know that he posted our interview. It’s great talking to I I really like talking to Indian people in general. I find the the conversation is very pleasant and positive. It was. It was really good, good conversation and they.
00:02:49
Jack
Both of the all the, all the interviews I’ve done, everybody speaks English really well, so have to change my yeah, I.
00:02:58
Jack
Don’t I don’t.
00:02:58
Jack
Have to adjust my speech? I just speak normally and everybody seems to understand me and and I can understand them. So yeah, it’s.
00:03:08
Nisha
It’s very good actually.
00:03:11
Nisha
Because if you if you’re speaking.
00:03:13
Nisha
And you’re you’re Speaking of way, actually, which is very natural for you. Maybe I would not understand you very well way.
00:03:26
Jack
I I try I try not to. You know, I try not to modify my my speech too much, even when I’m teaching, because I feel like students need to listen to real speech. I think that’s important because in the real world, no one is going to.
00:03:45
Jack
Modulate their their language. They’re going to just speak normally. And so I think good for students to kind of hear that and and to get used to listening to real natural speech. So I try not to do too much like what we call teacher talk.
00:04:03
Jack
You know, teacher talk.
00:04:04
Jack
Is like.
00:04:06
Jack
Yeah, very.
00:04:08
Nisha
Those person those you had a conversation rather included me with actually, those are the learners actually they are learning this language, they are not experts actually. And Amara is an expert in this language. But so many people, I think Chandra also is a learner. He is not a good at his English.
00:04:28
Nisha
Because they’re learners. I I also had a conversation with him with the Chandan.
00:04:34
Nisha
So because.
00:04:37
Nisha
So because the these are the callers, they are the Youtubers as well as and they are learning this language because they are facing the difficulty difficulties because this language is not their native language they it’s a there is second language actually.
00:04:57
Jack
Right, right. And the thing about the thing with chinden is that he?
00:05:02
Jack
He’s very self, very much self-taught like he.
00:05:07
Jack
He’s he he taught.
00:05:09
Jack
Himself how to speak English, which I think is really amazing. You know, when people are are just kind of, I mean actually everybody that I talked to is kind of self-taught all all of the YouTube channels.
00:05:22
Jack
In in the circle that been doing interviews with.
00:05:26
Jack
I think they’re all the same people that you, you know, I think as well everybody’s story is kind of the one of being self-taught. It’s like one day you decided I want to learn English and you went on the Internet, you found books, you found, you know, YouTube channels.
00:05:46
Jack
And you just did it by yourself. And that’s really amazing.
00:05:50
Jack
To me. So yeah, sorry, go.
00:05:53
Nisha
Ahead, actually one thing, if I want to ask you about the Indian people, what is the one best thing for Indian actually because you had a conversation with the people with the Indian people. So what do you think about?
00:06:12
Jack
Oh, I mean I the what’s the best thing about Indian people? I think it’s it’s got to be the politeness. I mean I I just find that like you know, Indian people are so polite and so gentle. You know, the way that they you the way that you guys reached out to me and asked me to.
00:06:32
Jack
Come on to your your YouTube channels was so respectful and so polite and so.
00:06:38
Jack
Mind and generous, you know, open, open minded and open hearted. So I think that’s that’s my that’s the one thing that I really noticed is true for everybody that reached out to me was just how how kind and polite and and respectful everybody is #2 my favorite thing about India.
00:06:59
Jack
Is not.
00:07:01
발표자 4
The bread? None.
00:07:04
Nisha
How can you probably in India, we called it in chapati, chapati actually.
00:07:11
Jack
Yes, I’m sorry. I’m probably using the Western word. Yeah. Yeah, because you have the best food in the world. It is amazing. So.
00:07:19
Nisha
Of you.
00:07:20
Nisha
Have you heard Indian food?
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발표자 4
Oh yeah, yeah.
00:07:23
Jack
Yeah, I’ve, I’ve. You know, I’ve never been to India before. I’ve never had, like authentic Indian food. But I’ve there’s there are Indian restaurants here in Korea that I love. And so my, my wife and my daughter, we go there often.
00:07:38
Nisha
Yeah, so which?
00:07:39
Nisha
Papers. Do you like most in Indian? Which Indian food do you like most?
00:07:45
Nisha
That’s a good.
00:07:46
Jack
I mean, I think it’s it’s got to be I I every time I go I try.
00:07:51
Jack
A different Curry.
00:07:53
Jack
So I think Curry and then the bread that you’re, you know, the the bread you’re talking about together is most wonderful. It’s just perfect. It’s just heavenly. Yeah, it’s amazing.
00:08:05
Nisha
Have you have you tried the Dal, Dal, Lincolns like? Have you tried anytime Indian?
00:08:13
Jack
Oh, yes, yes, yeah, it’s it’s kind of like a chickpea similar, right, similar similar to. Yes. Lovely outfit. Yeah, it’s it’s wonderful.
00:08:19
Nisha
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:25
Nisha
It makes it makes South Korea also so many Indian restaurants.
00:08:29
Jack
Yeah. Yeah, it’s really good.
00:08:32
Jack
It’s really healthy and it’s good like source of protein for if you’re like vegetarian or something, so it’s already.
00:08:39
Nisha
And I’m a non.
00:08:41
Nisha
Vegetarian also I can eat fish and I can eat.
00:08:45
Jack
I’m not. I’m not.
00:08:46
Jack
Vegetarian either I I eat, I eat meat and and and chicken and and.
00:08:51
Jack
All the good stuff but.
00:08:54
Jack
I know that there are some vegetarians and and some of those dishes are really.
00:09:00
Jack
They’re really good if you’re a vegetarian, you can still.
00:09:02
Jack
Have a lot of.
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Jack
Choices in, yeah.
00:09:06
Nisha
You you are a good cook also because those are.
00:09:09
발표자 4
No, no, that’s.
00:09:11
Jack
Terrible. I just go to a restaurant and and order it. My my wife is a good cook. Her mom is a good cook as well. So she. But she she makes really good Korean dishes.
00:09:26
Nisha
OK, so from if we talk about Indian culture like cooking and Indian kitchen three times in the morning, afternoon and at night time, breakfast, lunch and dinner, we cook three times in a day.
00:09:46
Nisha
Any Indian, every Indian Indian house? Actually, it makes it three times.
00:09:53
발표자 4
That’s that. I can’t.
00:09:57
Nisha
You also make the tea time. Food makes the three times.
00:10:02
Jack
Yeah. Well, no, we we usually eat together one time in, in the evening.
00:10:07
Jack
Because my wife.
00:10:07
Jack
And I are both.
00:10:08
Jack
Working for lunch time, so we’re at school.
00:10:12
Jack
And wrecked and for in the morning I I usually don’t eat breakfast. I’m just a breakfast eater. So I I eat in the afternoon.
00:10:12
Nisha
OK.
00:10:17
발표자
OK.
00:10:23
Jack
So eat dinner together, yeah.
00:10:26
Nisha
Yeah, yeah.
00:10:28
Nisha
You you forgot the one thing about the Indian Indians actually, which is Indians are very hard worker.
00:10:35
Jack
Yes, that’s true. I I I failed to mention that, but it is absolutely true, absolutely.
00:10:42
Jack
Really true hard workers, beautiful culture, great food and very kind and and polite. So yeah, I I I really need to visit your country. I think it’s it’s amazing.
00:10:57
Nisha
You, you, you, you, you. I think you should visit India. You can stay at my home no problem.
00:11:05
Jack
That’s a very generous offer. Thank you so much. Yeah.
00:11:10
Nisha
Yeah. So, like, should we talk about the topic or we just have a general conversation?
00:11:22
Jack
Whichever you prefer. I I’m open to to anything, so yeah.
00:11:27
Jack
You said you wanted.
00:11:27
Nisha
OK.
00:11:28
Jack
What topic was marriage? Is that what?
00:11:30
발표자 4
You want to talk about?
00:11:32
Nisha
No or any general conversation. If you want to ask anything about India, so you can ask me.
00:11:39
Jack
Yeah, well, I guess I’m. I’m I’m assuming that you are a really good cook, do you?
00:11:47
Jack
What are? What are your special what?
00:11:51
Nisha
Rather than me, my daughter is daughter-in-law, is very good cook. Actually. She makes a very good fish and she make a Afghani chicken and lots of things. She she cooks very well actually.
00:12:06
Nisha
But I’m also a good cook.
00:12:09
Jack
Yes, I I thought that that’s really nice that you have. Do you, do you have a, are you close with your with your?
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Jack
Daughter-in-law.
00:12:19
Jack
Do you? Do you have a close?
00:12:21
Jack
Relationship with your daughter-in-law.
00:12:25
Jack
That’s great. That’s great.
00:12:26
Nisha
Yeah. You know, in Indian culture, in Indian culture, we are living a we I am living in a with a three generation me, my son, my daughter-in-law and my in laws also we just live late together in a in a in a single home.
00:12:47
Jack
Yeah, that’s that’s still the.
00:12:49
Jack
Tradition, right in in India.
00:12:52
Nisha
Yeah, but nowadays nowadays, you know, it’s not like that culture actually it becoming nuclear family. So everybody have to go some, some, some places because because of their work.
00:13:07
Nisha
If they are doing a work, any other company, they have to move other city. So that’s the reason. Like my elder my younger son is living in in Mumbai because he is doing his job in Mumbai so. So it depends on the their work actually which type which kind of work you are doing.
00:13:26
Nisha
So it’s a depend on your work. So my elder son is a businessman, so he just live with us. He lives with us and my father-in-law. He is a 90 years old. And he also he is with us actually. So we are three patients live together.
00:13:44
Jack
That’s amazing. Generations together under one household or under one roof. That’s amazing.
00:13:51
발표자 4
That’s great.
00:13:53
Nisha
Yeah. And he if you talk about our relations, like, my relation with my father-in-law and my allows with a very good, very good understanding with with each other and if I talk about my daughter-in-law. So she is actually working. And she’s also very good.
00:14:12
Nisha
And healthy and happily, we live together.
00:14:15
Jack
Yeah, in in Korea, it used to be multi generational in homes. We used to live together, but it’s really changed a lot in the last few decades because of what you mentioned before about that. You know you have to go find where the work is so.
00:14:35
Jack
If you if your job is in Seoul, in the in the capital city.
00:14:40
Jack
And your families in the countryside, you cannot live at home. You have to move to.
00:14:44
Jack
The city find an.
00:14:45
Jack
Apartment and so a lot of families are are kind of split apart because of because of jobs, because of the of career, yeah.
00:14:58
Nisha
It is happening in India.
00:15:00
Nisha
I told you know it is same actually whenever person doing a job or some other cities and you have to there actually like like Indian like South Korean marriages culture so there people prefer to most prefer to law.
00:15:20
Nisha
Managers, they get to prefer law marriages or arranged marriages. Culture also is there.
00:15:28
Jack
Yeah. Ohh sorry one more.
00:15:30
Jack
Time. Could you repeat the question?
00:15:32
Jack
I I didn’t.
00:15:32
Nisha
Actually I want to ask that any if I talk about any South Korea, what type of culture is there like mostly people like to get hay law marriages.
00:15:45
Nisha
Or prefer to arrange marriages, you know, arranged marriages.
00:15:49
Jack
Yes, yes, yes, that’s a good that’s.
00:15:52
Jack
A great question.
00:15:53
Jack
Yeah. Usually I would say like I actually, I’ve never heard of an arranged marriage in Korea’s. I know that the most I would say.
00:16:07
Jack
Almost all of the marriages here are.
00:16:11
Jack
Through like dating, you know? So. But but there’s. But it’s different than America. I’ll, I’ll try to separate the the three countries a little bit. So in the United States we we do a lot of dating is just you just look for a partner and you you go out and mingle and and either in church or.
00:16:31
Jack
In a club or in a?
00:16:34
Jack
School. You know, university. You might meet somebody and then you you date for a while, a long time, six months, a year or a year and a half, and then you you might get.
00:16:46
Jack
In Korea, it’s very similar to the United States, except in Korea, the family sometimes will try to help by introducing the the daughter or son to other people, so they’ll try to like they’ll there’s actually a a whole industry of matchmaking.
00:17:05
Jack
In Korea, where they’re the company, you.
00:17:07
발표자 4
Pay a company.
00:17:09
발표자 4
Yeah. So.
00:17:10
Nisha
Happening like II was so then this actually this type process is doing in India also there is a special companies matchmaker companies like shop.com Wedding Elite weddings or like those companies.
00:17:27
Nisha
Is doing work actually.
00:17:30
Nisha
Which is South Korea and India. Is this similar culture it means.
00:17:33
Jack
It’s I think it’s it’s got a similarity to.
00:17:36
Jack
It I mean the the.
00:17:38
Jack
The thing in in Korea the the.
00:17:41
Jack
The If you.
00:17:42
Jack
If you come from a wealthy family.
00:17:44
Jack
Then the the parents want to introduce if they have a daughter they want to introduce their daughter to a doctor or a lawyer or, you know, a or something like that. If they have a son, then they want, you know, the the the wife should be from.
00:17:44
Nisha
OK.
00:18:04
Jack
A good family. So there that’s very important.
00:18:06
Jack
You know kind.
00:18:07
Jack
Of arranging it a little bit, not fully arranged. You know, marriage, but kind of partially arranged. A little bit kind of introduced kind of kind of nudged a little bit pushed, you know you 2.
00:18:20
Jack
And and get together.
00:18:20
Nisha
OK.
00:18:22
Jack
What I’ve noticed lately in in Korea is that.
00:18:27
Jack
I would say most of it’s more like more like American style nowadays. You know, most mostly just a lot of couples will just meet through school. University is a place where people meet. People will meet by group friends, you know, group of friends getting together and then they’ll they’ll.
00:18:47
Jack
Introduce each other. It’s just very, very natural, you know, kind of ways of that. People meet. And I I think the the more kind of arranged or or partially arranged you know.
00:19:02
Jack
Marriages are kind of.
00:19:03
Jack
Are are kind of of the past.
00:19:06
Jack
I think kind.
00:19:07
Nisha
Of yeah, yeah, I I got it actually before they got married because it’s a partially arranged marriage. You are saying that like in South Korea, I’m not talking about the America. Actually America marriages is a different system.
00:19:24
Nisha
It’s a very different way actually, right?
00:19:27
Jack
In America, it’s very much like, well, our our culture is very, very strange, like in, in a way, it’s, it seems kind of cold because.
00:19:36
Jack
Was when we turned 18 or 19. You know, when we graduate from university, our parents like get.
00:19:41
발표자
Out of the.
00:19:42
발표자 4
House go live on.
00:19:45
Jack
You know, get out.
00:19:45
발표자 4
Of here you’re done.
00:19:47
Nisha
Thank you very much. I like this process this this system. I like this very much actually. You know, Indian people just just some become like 606555 years and just in this this age he dependents on their parents.
00:20:06
Nisha
Actually, his parents, he would be 90 years, but they take care about their their son.
00:20:13
Nisha
Like my husband right now, my husband is 56 years old, right? And my father-in-law is 90 years old, but he is still takes care of my husband so much, so much. So this affection is very good. But, you know, sometimes the people don’t become responsible.
00:20:33
Nisha
At so I like this culture in a US because they become responsible at every age. Actually it’s good.
00:20:43
Jack
That’s I think there are good parts to all of the all of the differences, like every country’s got like some good parts. And I I think it’s good to go off and and take care of yourself because you learn how to be independent and self-sufficient. You learn how to take care of.
00:20:59
Jack
Yourself, but I think we also.
00:21:02
Jack
Can get a little bit too much.
00:21:04
Jack
Distance between families so that we we are neglectful of our of our parents. And I think I what I like is the the closeness of the Indian household. How close those relationships are.
00:21:21
Jack
When it comes to dating in American culture, I would say, you know you, you meet people where we we meet people is usually at work or at school. Those are the big places, but it’s very much like the parents are not involved really. It’s more of like later when you’re dating.
00:21:41
Jack
Then you introduce your, your girlfriend or boyfriend to your parents, but it’s at first it’s just, you know, you have to find your own way.
00:21:50
Jack
But I think a lot, you know, even in.
00:21:52
Jack
The in the recent past in America.
00:21:55
Jack
There were, you know, like very wealthy families that want to act with another wealthy family. And one way to connect is by the the children marrying. And so those kinds of arranged marriages. Again, it’s not, it’s not really an arranged marriage, but they’re it’s kind of partially arranged those.
00:22:16
Jack
We’re common and I think it still happens. You know, sometimes today.
00:22:20
Nisha
Which fields attend their marriages?
00:22:24
Jack
Yeah. I mean, it’s not it. And what what do you what about in, in in India like do they still have fully arranged marriages? Is that still common?
00:22:33
Nisha
When I talk.
00:22:34
Nisha
About when I got married at that.
00:22:36
Nisha
Time I was.
00:22:37
Nisha
Only 1920 years old only and.
00:22:42
Nisha
I’m talking about 30.
00:22:43
Nisha
Two years ago, I got married, actually. Wow.
00:22:48
Nisha
You know, I I got married totally. Each marriage at that time, even I didn’t saw my husband. I didn’t see my husband at that time before marriage, I didn’t see my husband. It was very wondering actually, but actually it’s a Indian culture. But nowadays it’s also totally changed.
00:23:08
발표자 4
OK.
00:23:08
Nisha
Before when like I got my son married. So he it did marriage also he arranged marriage. But you know they they had a meeting 4 or 5 * 4 capability they get to understand to each other it would be better for their relationship.
00:23:29
Nisha
Actually, so they are in Norway nowadays. In India, people getting getting, getting in love marriages evenly arranged, marriages also doing. But most probably 70% it is doing arranged marriages.
00:23:45
Jack
OK. And you know the the thing that I I learned, I heard this, I don’t know if it’s true, but you can correct me, but arranged marriages are about at just as successful or more successful statistically than non arranged marriages, right? Like you you would think like in an arranged marriage.
00:24:05
Jack
As an American I would think Ohh they must get divorced really often. You know that would be my my assumption my guess, but it’s not true. The arranged marriages are oftentimes very successful marriages.
00:24:17
Nisha
Thank you.
00:24:24
Nisha
Yeah, it’s true. So in America, in America, people believe in it. If the people do the get the arranged marriage they were, they would be successful, they they would be fail. You were talking about.
00:24:25
Jack
And so yeah, which is to us, it’s counterintuitive.
00:24:45
Jack
Well, no, we I, in my mind like I we we would think that like arranged marriages are fail more often.
00:24:55
Jack
But I I.
00:24:56
Jack
Don’t think it’s true. It’s not true. I think that arranged marriages are.
00:25:00
Jack
Actually, just as successful as non arranged marriages.
00:25:07
Jack
Why do you? Why is that? Why do you think that is? Like what? Why does it work the way it?
00:25:12
Nisha
Yeah, I’m telling you, actually, what happened in in India, in India, what happened in I2 people don’t get married. Two families get married. They become a relationship with within the two families, you know. And after marriage, the bride.
00:25:32
Nisha
Going to live within the year was actually so sometime, you know, the the after the marriage, the bride and groom both are boys and girls. Both are.
00:25:43
Nisha
Young and they are young blood and sometimes they have an argument with each other and if at that moment if there is some another person like me and sometime, you know my daughter and son having some issues with the.
00:26:03
Nisha
Personal topic, actually, every time I make them understand that it’s not a good, it is not good for you that that one is not good good for you. So maybe that that thing make works. Actually these things work work actually maybe any layer below.
00:26:22
Nisha
That the marriage marriages is more successful rather.
00:26:26
Nisha
Than low marriages.
00:26:28
Jack
Yeah. Yeah, that’s the. That’s what’s so interesting is that they’re often they’re successful. They they’re arranged, marriages work and so.
00:26:36
Jack
I think you.
00:26:36
Jack
Know as a as a, as a young person in America when I was, you know.
00:26:40
Jack
Growing up, we we you know.
00:26:43
Jack
We would hear about that. You know, they have arranged marriages in in other countries such as India and we would, you know, say wow, that’s that that’s that can’t work. That’s impossible. How is that possible? But now as a, you know, looking looking back as a 46 year old.
00:27:02
Jack
I can.
00:27:02
Jack
See that like.
00:27:05
Jack
You know there there’s other ways of doing it that are just as valid and as long as both, you know, families and both parties are are fully committed to it. They can make it work. So yeah, it’s it’s really fascinating. It’s an interesting topic for me because I just, I don’t know very much about it, to be honest.
00:27:25
Jack
Kind of ignorance so.
00:27:26
Nisha
Where you know Jack.
00:27:27
Nisha
Nowadays, India in India also marriages the the divorce rate, increasing day by day.
00:27:36
Nisha
Also, the people, the young couple, they most probably like to live a separate family and now a generation don’t have much patience.
00:27:49
Nisha
And they they they don’t adjust. They don’t want to adjust to each other. So day by day in India also whether it is a long marriage or arrange marriages.
00:28:01
Nisha
Divorce rate increasing. I don’t know what is the reason behind that. Maybe lack of patience, lack of adjustment. You know, in Indian marriages, most probably women adjust in the marriages.
00:28:18
Jack
Yeah, that’s really fascinating. I’m I’m. I’m glad you brought that up because I think I think that it your your point about people not being patient is really, really true, because even in my own, in my own experience, my wife is Korean. I’m American. And so there’s a lot of opportunity for us to misunderstand each other.
00:28:40
Jack
When we first got married, but we were both patient people, so we understand like, OK.
00:28:47
Jack
We have to.
00:28:49
Jack
There’s a time to you. You can disagree. Like it’s OK to disagree and have disagreements, but it’s it’s how you disagree is the important thing, and I think these days young people are kind of want instant.
00:29:04
Jack
It’s satisfaction. So if they disagree, they just walk away. I’m finished. You know, it’s done.
00:29:12
Jack
And they don’t. They don’t go through the process, you know, disagree discuss, you know, reconcile. And there’s a whole process to it. And I think these days a lot of people are just like the first problem and they just go. I’m done. I quit. And and I think that’s.
00:29:31
Jack
A kind of.
00:29:32
Jack
That’s a mistake. It’s a big mistake.
00:29:35
Jack
That people make.
00:29:35
Nisha
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:29:37
Nisha
So whenever you some time whenever you have your argument with your wife and the time who say the soul, you are the one who say the sorry first or your wife say the sorry.
00:29:49
Jack
You know, I always say I’m.
00:29:51
Jack
Sorry, it’s always me. I’m the one who always makes the mistakes, you know. So I’m always.
00:30:01
발표자 4
I yeah.
00:30:04
Nisha
At last, actually it’s already become a 31 minute actually. So at last I want to say that like regarding marriage, if you want your beautiful married life at that time actually for that.
00:30:22
Nisha
If you want to run the your marriage in a long time, that time you have to patience. I think a good understanding.
00:30:31
Nisha
And trust to each other. And one thing is more important. It should be. You should not criticize to your partner actually.
00:30:42
Nisha
So if you yeah, so these are the important points, if you if you don’t criticize your partner all the time, so maybe you can overcome from your problem whatever.
00:31:02
Nisha
Being in your married life and our thing is more than you have to give the space to your partner. In Indian culture, these things is not happen for especially women.
00:31:16
Jack
Right. But I mean you’ve I.
00:31:19
Jack
Think you’ve summarized it perfectly like I agree with everything you said. I mean exclamation point, because you’re exactly right. It’s about.
00:31:28
Jack
Love and respect, you know, and and being patient and I mean those are so important in a in a relationship in a marriage. If you’re gonna stay together. Yeah, you’ve been you been married 30.
00:31:42
Jack
Two years, right?
00:31:42
Jack
32 years. That’s amazing. I I met 18 years.
00:31:47
Jack
So we’re getting close to close to 20 years, yeah.
00:31:48
Nisha
OK.
00:31:52
Nisha
Whenever you completed 25 years, then you will celebrate the your Golden Jubilee.
00:31:58
발표자 4
Yes, right. Yeah. Yeah, we’ll go to India. Yeah, for a trip.
00:32:07
Nisha
I think on your Golden Jubilee you must see your wife. Like what the?
00:32:14
Nisha
Taj Mahal, you.
00:32:15
Nisha
Know the Taj Mahal. It is very.
00:32:16
Nisha
Famous in India.
00:32:17
Nisha
So you should.
00:32:20
Nisha
See her the Taj Mahal on your 25th anniversary. You can stay with me at my home whenever you care.
00:32:29
Jack
That’s so generous of you. That’s amazing. See, I told you, Indian people are super generous. Super polite. Yeah, it’s just true.
00:32:38
Nisha
Yeah, yeah.
00:32:39
Jack
Thank you so much, Nisha. You know, it’s it’s so fun to talk to you and the time just flies by like you know so quickly. But yeah.
00:32:49
Nisha
OK, Jaipur, to the conversation, I’m giving you precious time. Thank you so much for that.
00:32:55
Jack
At anytime I I’m happy to talk to you. Yeah.
00:32:58
Jack
Let’s let’s do it again sometime.
00:33:01
Nisha
OK.
00:33:02
Jack
All right. Thanks, nisha. OK. All right. Bye bye.
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